Tullian Tchividijian, 38, new senior pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church and grandson of Billy Graham, on dissidents challenging his leadership:
"I haven't seen Matthew 18 used nearly as often as it should be. I think what saddened me most was that those who stirred up the most trouble never even attempted to come and see me...
The real underlying issue was a perceived loss of power. When new members join the church, they promise 'to promote the unity, purity, and peace of the Church.' One of the quickest ways to break this vow is to gossip - to 'chatter idly about others behind their backs.' This seemingly innocent activity can cause a world of hurt. The corrective is found in Matthew 18.
I'm convinced that most divisions in the church would never happen if we took God at his word and scrupulously observed Matthew 18. When we sin against our brother or sister in Christ we sin against ourselves. A sin - such as slander - against any one of us is a sin against all of us. It's like shooting ourselves in the foot, only much worse."
- from July 2010 edition of Church Executive